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In answer,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Sonny feels he namely the sufferer and occasionally adopts the role of the Intimidator, to stop them from pressuring him.
Does he need to learn that he is free not to engage to do something when he so chooses?
From the writing "Relationships of Conscious Love"
She, aboard additional hand, feels single, cheated and seriously abandoned by his absence of participation in their household life.
What does each need to learn here?
Sonny says "YES" to whatever request is made of him,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych],
yet not follow via with the approval.
Does he also need to surmount his alarm of clash?
Dorothy is the "responsible one" in the family. She has established the belief that she cannot depend on Sonny, accordingly she expects him to be irresponsible. She waits for him to foul up so she can jump on him. She criticizes him in front of others something that hurts him deeply.
Does he need to go on his infancy years?
Does she need to analyze why she criticizes him in front of others?
Does she need to change her image of Sonny in order to help him change?
What does she do that reasons Sonny to linger in his role? What role is she playing?
His wife Dorothy and his family have a serious problem with his proclivity to leave things untied, principally when he has agreed to do them. They cannot depend on him and feel they are being cheated. His perceptible laziness and lack of sense of liability pique them. They denounce and discard him.
Perhaps he must free himself from the role of the irresponsible one and become more conscientious about what he has agreed to do?
The second cause is that he feels his liberty is creature impeded because he has to do what others query of him and has no appetite to do it. For him, since he is scared to mention no anytime someone asks something from him, the request is like a bid alternatively array. He often feels that someone is differentiating him what to do, even when they are simply asking if he would like to help. This, too, is a outcome of his being ordered around by his parents for a child.
Or is it to feel free to say no when he is asked to do something?
Does he need to learn to feel free even when he has someone to do?
Dorothy:
Does she need to be extra understanding or more claiming?
Does he need to share his fears with his wife?
Sonny:
Afterward, he feels guilty, becomes defensive, and sometimes, combative. He, on the one hand, cannot say no,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], effectively because he fears rejection and conflict. On the other hand, he feels suppressed by however he has to do because two reasons. First, he lacks the self-confidence that he can do something right. He is quite afraid of making a mistake, something because which he again received rejection and discipline from his dad as a child. His father guaranteed him that he would "never be proficient to do anything with his life."
They can detect solutions to this problem if they look into themselves and communicate honestly and openly.
Is his course is to overcome his fear of making a fault?