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Our children how it? (2)

 question five: What our children worship idols? Yang Lijuan things uproar, I saw very sad. A time when the flower of youth, girls, have done some what? 13 years, the good old days have given their hearts away idols, the last still using his father's suicide to meet in exchange and idols. This child is only harmed their doting parents, only their ignorance of it? Seems not to be around because we have too many crazy groupies. They do not understand with the way we adults vent their love and hate, they do not know what they're doing a. Each person will have a dream when I was younger, will have worship of idols. When I was small I worship greater than themselves, more than 10-year-old uncle. Because He talks funny, can make me happy, because he scores good, can not test more than the University, but also because he can endure hardship,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], famished sto[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]hs would like to learn. Today, the uncle has been a successful middle-aged, he experienced many failures and suffering. One day, I told him he was my idol when his uncle was very moved, he said did not expect. Little me, admired uncle because, so worship him, and bent to learn from him. For me he is going. Our children will worship the hard work of man? Seems impossible. They carefully teaching the teachers, being laughed at old-fashioned or foolish, they and their parents are no longer young, with so-called generation gap,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], they have a dazzling idol, trendy clothing, trendy mouthful of words, or sing without pain, itching of the songs are not, these people become their persistent dreams. Maybe they do not want to understand, these people are the number of rings is hard to eat in return. Media attention and privacy only affair, how many stars can tell our children that though we are so beautiful, when we we were suffering that you can not imagine. Our children should have what kind of idol? We do not know, children are at a loss.
  question 6: our children what they learned from their parents? Most of the parents and did not notice how their words and behavior will affect the child. However, scientific analysis, normal and healthy family environment and family members are an important reason for the decision the child personality. In addition to the parents concerned about children's academic performance, very little attention to their impact on children. Children learn from what their parents? When we as-law relationship does not live in contradiction, our children have learned not to respect the elderly, do not care for the elderly,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and even find it too old. When we're old, became the target abandoned. This abandonment is not only physical, more spiritual. When we called the business day to night out, drunk, or drink, our children have learned life of debauchery, indulgence. When we are faced with life's ups and downs of the great anxiety, our children may be because an examination is not satisfactory, their lives. We chat with friends on the community and certain things made one-sided view, our children may have planted a cynical mind the seed. We are busy in order to achieve a certain purpose dinners, our children was in the Class leaders also learned to bribe election. We had a romantic affair, has been a long time attend to the child, we divorce, our children secretly tears. Crying, the innocent children of our mind, the marriage has been filled with terror. Words and deeds we inadvertently moved the children deeply. If we are positive, optimistic, cheerful, family responsibility, community efforts, for the children operate a sunny living space,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], our children make us disappointed? Criticize the child, first check yourself!
  question 7: our children what kind of feeling in the world? Our children have very fragile emotions. Complex social emotions so that our children can no longer simple. Most children are lonely. They may have to mix and students busy, they may be the leader in all competitions, and their heart is very lonely. A fifth-grade girl told me, my sister, I was lonely, I feel good meaningless life. I asked her why? She says, even people who were listening to me not, I tell who mind do not know. I have seen parents, father is an engineer, perennial in the field and his mother was a deputy director of Industry and Commerce. Their child is responsive. But they did not know, in addition to material needs is a child understand their feelings friend. Most of the children have the same feeling. They alone, their inner emotional world, no place to vent the rich. Then there is the so-called puppy love. In fact, our children does not necessarily love,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], they need so that they feel is a safe, warm and can talk to the emotional object. But we are ignored. Many times, children can not give yourself the emotional positioning, our parents and teachers was out of the attribute. Child's feelings are valuable, the child's emotional world like a garden needs water, fertilizer and catch the worm, but the gardener must be a child by the trust. Child's emotional world need our guidance and help, we ignored.
  our parents and educators, child day care about is test scores, of course, can not blame them, our education system it is. They always complain that children do not learn, discipline, puppy love, transvestites, treason, broke their hearts. They ever knew, the children are very depressed. They want freedom, desire communication, longing for someone to guide, but they can not trust anyone. Recently, in Dan's \Confucius thousands of years ago, educating students, tell them all the truth in life and so on. We respected him as a great educator, we can also open an ideological education classes, to guide our children,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], combines of today's social atmosphere,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], learn the essence of ancient thought, let them have a sound personality, loving heart, a positive attitude towards life. Test scores are important, but my opinion, the children mature, to understand the truth more,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], he should learn them more easily. Their future is not only admitted to a good university can decide, really decide the fate of the character. Yes, it seems the quality of education that is a long time.
  recently, the state seems to introduce some policies to help improve children's mental qualities, such as school counselors, etc. to have, I think it is totally inadequate. How many schools can do so? Can run? Counselor is a kindly old lady can be as good? Can not agree with me. Write this article, hope more people will care about children, concerned about education, so that our education is no longer boring.

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